Something I have noticed for years and it has annoyed me for all of those years.  Two terms that are often used interchangeably … when they really speak to two different aspects of sexuality.

I am here to discuss the difference between (sexual) freaks … and hoes.


SBM: Man … did you ever mess with that chic you met at the club last week?  She was phat!
Friend: Yeah … I hit her up last week.  And you know … we got up …
SBM: Really?  Man …
Friend: Yeah man … she was a freak!
SBM: Damn … she was doing some crazy stuff of a random club beat?
Friend: Naw … I mean she let me hit after no time.  She seems like she does it at least once a month from talking to her.
SBM: So you mean she is a hoe.
Friend: Hoe … freak … whatever.
SBM: *shakes head slowly* Man … they aren’t the same. Don’t you know the difference?
Friend: *puzzled look*

Yes people …it’s different from the song… But a freak is not a hoe … and a hoe is not a freak.  A hoe can be a freak … and a freak can be a hoe … or someone could be neither … but they could also be both confused yet?

A sexually liberal individual.  Someone who is willing and eager to try and do all the things that you were told not to do.  The type of things involving three people, midgets, toys, and exposure to people in public.  She is comfortable with their body and their sexuality and not willing to let their inhibitions stop them.

A person of loose sexual nature.  They have had a lot of sexual partners … are not very discerning in who they sleep with … and may very well have earned a reputation for their willingness to sleep with someone.  They are known as women of a “loose nature”.

Got it?

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Hoes, whores, sluts … that’s the negative one.  As a guy (or girl) you don’t want one of them.  They might make a good JO (Jump Off) or one night stand temporary situation … but you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife.  Reformed hoes are completely different situation … because (in some cases) the past is just that … the past … but Project Pat said it best “Don’t save her … she don’t wanna be saved.”  These are the ones you pass around to your friends afterward …

Freaks, Freaklinks, Liberal in the bed … those are prized finds.  They are the ones that are going to swallow, bring in a friend, hang upside down from the ceiling fan, pull out handcuffs … and then wake you up in the morning asking for more.  Then she will give you that on the road “attention” while driving her to breakfast … and then propose a little bathroom desert after finishing off her eggs.  No hole is off limits, no idea is too weird.

Now … not every freak is good for ya.  You have your freak hoes … which are the ones to watch out for.  A combination of both … someone who is willing to do whatever … and someone who will do whoever.  Not only has she slept with all of your friends, their friends, and that homeless guy who dances on the corner for change … but she has also been violated by these random people in ways that would make Jenna Jameson cringe.  Example … a girl who goes to the club with lube in her purse looking to leave with a stranger (true story).

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But … you do have Good Freaks.  The ones who are freaks only for their man.  Some of the crazier sexual acts require a lot of trust (who wants to be handcuffed and left for dead because you said something wrong … or one poorly planned back flip can spell ruin for you special guy) … so they know not to share their special talents with just anyone.  This is the girl you take home to meet mom … and then tell dad about.

And while these terms essentially mean the same thing for man or women … “nasty” is the proper male replacement for freak … and “he-slut” or “man-whore” is the proper replacement for hoe.

So go forth good people … educate the masses.  Don’t let the good name of “Freak” be bestowed upon an undeserving hoe.  Lets make it mean something again!!!

Agree with the definitions?  What do you need in your life freaks, hoes, (freak hoes) together … or just plane?  For the women … which label defines you?  What about half-breeds?  Reformed hoes … freaks with hoe tendencies … psuedo-freaks?