[youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3yJO701C8YE]
Its sad, but I have a lot of friends who walk around and say “did you see that girl looking at me?! I could have got that number” or sometimes I’m on the metro and I see a guy who has some girl practically pinned to the wall trying to talk to her (as she looks mortified) with nowhere to go … ignoring the fact that she doesn’t like him. Or what about when I’m in the club, and I watch a guy get turned down 5 times by the same woman in 10 minutes.
What makes some of us think we can approach any woman and just never get turned down? Where did this arrogance come from?
GurlTalkk, who feels like a brother by another mother, has some interesting points on the matter. I’m not gonna talk your head off … check the video …
BTW … only a special kind of guy almost never gets turned down … but for most of you … your not him.
"A woman sees who she choses to see"
That is fuykin brilliant. That's true generally for people too. Perception and/or attention to xyz is EVERYTHING in love-love-money and war.
Preach that gospel son! PREACH!
I'm going to have to check out more of his videos. Funny!!
I've definitely encountered more than my fair share of brotha's who won't take "NO" for an answer.
I don't know what it is with the arrogance but it would do them some good to check GurlTalkk out.
Dude looks like he knows his stuff!!! 🙂
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See, this is what I ask my girls all of the time. Men get outright belligerent when you reject them, no matter how polite you are. There is an annoying sense of entitlement to my personal space so even the idea that I dare say no is a deep insult.
My fav line: "Or maybe youre the 15 millionth guy to try to talk to her and she dont wanna hear your shit!"
Now some dudes will step around this by saying "I know you probably had a lot of dudes hitting on you and you dont wanna hear it but…"
Automatic shut down!
One thing he doesn't touch on is when a you (a woman) are looking like 10 million dollars- buffed-waxed-polished. And NOTHING. I mean thats when you wanna here a little game spit at cha. Not just when you looking like 500k.
lol @ comeback i feel that, past two months i been lookin more like 30 cents (laughin at myself) but this weekend its gone have to be some spitshine, jiffy lube n hair grease for free! how eva i get waxed my ass is going out this weekend!!!
@CBM: Maybe your conversion rate if off. 1 million comeback dollars might be 30 cents in SBM pounds.
Check that exchange rate ladies…
A wise playa once said: "I like girls that like me." I agree.
I love this dude. I've seen a couple of his youtube videos. I'm glad you an him both addressed the topic, because more men need to realize this.
I'm not stopping and talking to you when you are standing on the corner saying ppsssss…
or shawty… and in most cases I am taller than you…
And then we cant win… if we say hi just to be nice then they want to hold a conversation with you and continue to walk you where ever you are going… if you dont speak… then they say something like "i didnt want to talk to you anyway with ya ________ what ever fits, flat butt, big head, whatever insult they can think of at that time.
Its extremely ridiculous that we even have to deal with that mess.