I found this video here … which then led me to here and after watching it … I thought she made some good points.One important point is why girls like the “icky” guy. It was a moot point in the video, but something I have always wondered about personally.
I will admit, she has a good point about the level of chivalry and “niceness” as it pertains to sex. And yes, there is a very good chance a female will see diminshing returns after sex occurs … but hey … thats life.
Any willing to test this out in the field and let me know (as a courtesy to the guys though, I will have to inform them afterwards).
Yay Im #1 lol What i have found in my own dating experiences is that "ickies" typically are fine as heck, or good in bed or at the least at bay if u need him to give you a fix. thats those are the only reasons i can think as reasons to keep icky boys around. Personal experience.
I agree with mikki. Most often the ickies are really cute. You find yourself willing to let other things slide when he's physically surpassing the every day man by a lot. But I'm definitely not condoning that any one date an icky b/c looks and sexual ability can only take you so far.
Hi SBM! It's Cindy Lu! Creator of The Four Man Plan! Hey, thanks for your props on my ideas. Some men seem to have a problem with me letting women in on why some things go down the way they do. But I find that most confident men want the genders to be more HONEST with each other in order to better relations. It's not so much that its that ALL GUYS are insensitive dicks or that ALL CHICKS are clingy crazies, but that we should be aware that we can behave that way sometimes when we are being unconscious.
The 4MP is really for girls to realize that SELF LOVE is the first step to finding TRUE LOVE. If she's good with herself she's going to be VERY good for the right man…
When it finally dawned on my WHY the ickies was so damn hot, because they reminded me of dad, because it meant I could continue to ignore my own issues and focus on theirs and still feel like the better person, because I thought adding danger to sex made it so much hotter, I just HAD TO SHARE!
If you're curious to see how women are doing on the Plan there are over 100 hundred of them to date blogging about every single detail on the FORUM at http://www.thefourmanplan.com.
Keep up the good work!!
xo,
cindylu